Mini Mission Monday ~ Is your clutter a bother to someone else?

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About Colleen Madsen

Colleen is the founder of 365 Less Things and lives in Newcastle, Australia.


  1. I think my family has a long way to go before they can say anything about my stuff. Which is why I won’t ask them :).
    I will use the suggestions in regard to Their stuff.
    Yesterday there were two pairs of work boots which had been sitting in the basket for months. They had dual ownership between my son and my husband. Neither wore them, neither would throw away the boots . I asked both if they wanted the boots, neither did. So I disposed of them.
    With a new kitchen two weeks away, I have cleaned out the existing cupboards in preparation.
    With new technology in the kitchen I will be able to reduce what I already have . The biggest joy will be a dishwasher. To me that will instantly reduce the sink clutter. The rack, the drying dishes, the towels, the dish washing liquid, the scourers and the dirty dishes.
    The cook top will be more efficient than my existing one , so out will go the electric frypan . I currently have five saucepans that won’t be suitable for the cooktop. They will be replaced with two suitable ones to start with and I will see if I need any more.

    • Wendy F – we got an induction cooktop recently and had to replace our frying pans, fortunately our pots were ok. Usually I have a large pan and a small pan, but I have had to expand it to a large pan, a small pan and a wok pan as the base of the pans needs to sit inside the element area and therefore pans are smaller than my regular pans, making fried rice and Chinese dishes became too messy with stuff going over the side of the pans. Fortunately I was able to get the wok using my Flybuy rewards points.

      Dishwasher – the greatest invention in my opinion, but my kids who’ve been raised with one think that unloading it is a chore and a bore, and often a stack of dirty dishes ends up on the bench. I will be cracking down on that in the near future, too many pressure deadlines at school at the moment to add that to the mix but I will be bringing back the washing by hand regime in the near future.

      • Moni,
        Your dishwasher comment reminded me of an elderly lady at our church who has never owned a dishwasher. She always says that for years she had three dishwashers….her three sons! Love her sense of humor.

    • Wendy,
      What’s up with me?? I have had a dishwasher for years and I do use it. I also use the dish drain, dish towels, dish detergent, etc. I always have so much stuff that I do not put in the dishwasher – like knives that will loose their sharpness, pots and pans that do not come out nice and streak free, plenty of plastics that are only recommended for top shelf and I never have the room, with the mugs, glasses and bowls.
      Please don’t let my perfectionism ruin your ability to have a nice neat kitchen. I have tried many times to do without and have donated my dish racks, only to go out and repurchase. I have even tried using only dish drying mats and they also don’t work for me!

      • There’s nothing up with you. 🙂 We have knives we only hand wash because it does help retain their sharpness. Not all of our pots and pans fit into the dishwasher. Also, the inserts for our rice cooker get cleaner when washed by hand. Sometimes I think it is just a matter of how many dishes and what kind of dishes your family uses throughout the day.

  2. Yes we find the clutter is worse with the dishwasher, rather than dealing with dishes daily. However, i cant seem to educate leaving dishes to drain indefinitely is not cleaning up in entirety. Does anyone have tips to lower your frustrations with families clutter?

  3. Oh my Colleen. I wish The clutter was my mess so I could ask this question and then declutter. 🙂

    We have a diswasher. We never use it except to run it once a month or so to keep the gasket from going bad. We don’t have enough dishes. It would take a week to fill it. We wash our dishes right away and it takes maybe 5 minutes.

    • I wish we didn’t have enough dishes to fill the dishwasher but we do. With (currently) five people living here and everybody often eating at different times, I can load and run the dishwasher in the morning and have a full batch by the evening. I read tips about making the family eat together and blah blah blah. But only one of us is under the age of 18 and herding adults is akin to herding cats. ::sigh::

      • Rachel W – I have exactly the same situation. Everyone has places to be at different times and its just how it rolls. I have a dish drawer dishwasher, so at least I can put one drawer thru at different times of the day but there is a tendancy to use mainly the top one (which the manufacturers don’t recommend) – but the dishes are a bit relentless. Plus my son makes a meal to take to work and my dishes slowly disappear and then I get a heap back at once.

  4. That’s how we do our dishes, too. Takes about 5 minutes usually, but I wait until just before I start lunch to do the breakfast ones so I will have good hot water for the clean-as-I-go fixing lunch.
    As for my clutter bothering anyone, I don’t think my husband would ever see it, lol. He tends to hang onto his stuff, so I think he would be afraid to mention it–if by some miracle he actually saw clutter. Our office area stays sort of messy since we both use the same computer for the internet, and usually leave whatever we are working on out, which in my case that may be 4 or 5 different things. I did ask him once if he thought it looked cluttered. He immediately said no. Since I was tired, I just left it as it was. I have read that since men were the hunters, and women the berry gatherers, we don’t see things the same way. Could be, who knows.

  5. YES! when I get back home, I will ask my husband if there is cluttering he minds.. I can only wonder what he will say.