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About Colleen Madsen

Colleen is the founder of 365 Less Things and lives in Newcastle, Australia.

Comments

  1. Andreia, thank you for being so honest and putting your story out here. My mess started much the same way – large house, two households not even close to filling it up, years of accumulating things. You did an amazing job under time pressure and from your post it sounds like you did the bulk of it without help. Good for you! You are an inspiration.

    • Hi Jo! I think I work best under pressure :-). And you are right I went about it alone, because my husband is more of a pack-rat than me. He was supportive when I said I was going to do it, but didn´t sort trhough anything, just put the garbage bags outside, when I told him to do it :-D. I just wanted to share my story so everyone would feel encouraged to let go of sttuf and live their lives. Glad to have inspired you.

  2. Baby steps are steps too. Every clutter that gets out of the house is one!

  3. Wow! Amazing story Andreia. Thanks for taking the time to write and for sharing.

    • Hi Cindy! I was actually inspired by the blog to write. I looked around my house and I noticed things now have a place to be put back, and how easy it is to clean the house now, and then I remembered what it used to be like. And I thought: “Wow, I DID declutter!”, and felt so happy with the thought that I had to tell everyone, and maybe someone with the same issues that I had can get their house sorted out.

  4. Great story Andreia and a very enjoyable read. And I can certainly relate to the issue of 2 adults combining their lives in a small space.
    And you demonstrate so well the preocess of decluttering is one of phases and stages, each building on the last, and that changing your habits underpins it all.
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    • Hi Katharine. I had to review the way I dealt with stuff, and so had my husband (he said he did because I “forced” him 😉 )In the end we had just to stop and consider what was important and what was expendable and we could do without. About the phases, I believe that only TV shows manage to have a “before” and “after” in less than 7 days. For the rest of us there’s also life going on, and it can’t stop, especially because of clutter.

      • Hi Andréia,
        yes I don’t believe that normal folks have a “before and after” that is like movies with “happily ever after” when the boy gets the girl. That is the easy part, maintaining the “relationship” whether that be with someone or something (our Stuff) is the tricky part.

        • Hi Colleen. Stuff in our lives is very relative. For me, and note the “for me” part, I have, now, an uncluttered and very functional home. For a minimalist I would have a “crowded” home with so much stuff that it made him sick (it’s a joke :-)), for a hoarder, I would have “nothing”. And we never manage to have our houses perfect because we live in those houses. So I agree with you, it’s the “keeping it decluttered” part that is difficult, and that’s why, even though I did make progress, I come by everyday, to keep me going.

          • Hi Andréia,
            I understand exactly what your are saying here and my home is the same. For me it is uncluttered (not completely to my liking yet) but to a true minimalist it would be quite cluttered but as you say to a hoarder my possession would seem sparse. I don’t care what either of them would think, I am happy to do it and have it my way.

  5. thanks for sharing your story! I think it helps to have that vision of a safe and clear place for the kids to play. It’s a great motivator

    • Hi Jessiejack! For me, the babies were the ONLY motivators that made me move! :-D. Before I always let the house be a big mess, because I simply did not care. Why clean? Why trhow stuff away? My husband and me just ignored it. But children don’t ignore out of place stuff, they make it messier, and they might hurt themselves. Now THAT motivated me. Still working in a few trouble areas, or “black holes” for clutter.:-)

  6. Hi Andréia,
    thank you again for sharing your story with us. It is always inspiring for people who think the task is too great to tackle to hear the success story of someone who took on the challenge and achieved the peace and serenity that living with less can provide.

    The need to provide a safe and loving environment for your two beautiful boys was a great motivator to get you started. There presence now is enough encouragement to keep you on track. And I hope our little community here at 365 less things will also continue to inspire you to greater success.

    Have a great day Andréia and sit back and enjoy the wonderful home and family you have created.

    • Hi Colleen. I don’t know where I read it, but I read once that if you wanted to see if a house was cluttered you should let a toddler go through it. It panicked me! 😯 . I thought: “Oh my God! My mess wil hurt my babies!” And they weren’t even born. Now I can work on my computer, go to laundry room, and leave them a few minutes unnatended, knowing that, apart from their toys, there’s nothing anywhere out of place that might hurt them. I can have a nice house like I always wanted and it is happening now. But now and again I will write to you all, wnating to get rid of stuff, because I think it’s clutter, so, as I said, the work is never finished.

  7. How can I post my picture beside the post?

    • Hi Andréia,
      If you mean how can you have your picture in today’s post featuring your delcutter story you would need to email me a photo of yourself and I can replace the flower photo that is there now. I would be more than happy to do that for you.

      If you mean how can you have your photo (avatar) next to your comments you need to go the gravitar.com and follow the instructions. The link I just added will take you straight to the page where you can sign up for your avatar.

      Good luck I am looking forward to seeing you, it is always nice to have a face to go with the name.

  8. Hi Colleen! Just want to check if it worked.

  9. Hi Colleen! I was just browsing and found a picture that shows everyone my inspirations. 🙂

  10. Hi Colleen (and hi Andreia)!

    I think you are so right about the “before” and „after“. It really doesn’t work like this in real life. But I sometimes like to pretend it does. That mainly means chosing one room or one area in a room and transform it to the decluttered place I dream of when I have some time at my hand to do it. Of course I end up with boxes of things or even furniture that now is homeless and the harder part – the decluttering, selling, donating,deciding, sorting, filing etc. – is only postponed. But the relaxing vibe of an accomplished room or corner or cupboard makes me happy and gives me energy. When I am frustrated or overwhelmed with the whole task I can turn to this room, sip on some tea and just admire, what I am apparently capable of. The boxed things then usually are approached (too) slowly but eventually dissappear with the slow and steady routine. I find it magical how sometimes items, I thought I could not let go of but did not want in place they were anymore either, seem to have lost all their appeal to me once they ended up in boxes that cluttered up my bedroom for weeks (or, hmm, months …). The detachment of things works too if you put it in a basement or an attic or a garage – I just find myself procrastinating even longer then. As someone who stumbled into decluttering by seeking a beautiful home in the first place (then noticed: no beauty without organization, no organization without decluttering first – unless you want to make it a hobby, which I don’t …) I find it helpful to hurt my eyes now and then. This really may not work for everyone. But I find myself shaken by beauty and by desaster while a medium level of mess or clutter often remains “unseen” – though the longer I declutter the better I get at detecting clutter 🙂

    • Hi Ideealistin,
      I think your process of decluttering one area whether it be big or small so you can go back and admire your handy work is a good way to motivate yourself to continue on with the task. I would surely recommend this approach especially if a person finds it easy to get discouraged.
      I was going to add more to this response but as I was writing it I decided I could make it the subject for tomorrows post so stay tuned.

    • Hi Ideealistin. When I didn’t have kids I used this approach once or twice (I did empty one of the bedrooms :-D), it made me feel good, but the trouble, for me, was just lurking…And eventually would spread all over the house again! Your approach works for you because once you declutterer one area (that’s what I understood, but correct me if I am wrong) it remains decluttered. My space never did, it got cluttered again, :-). I understand very well the procrastination bit. We put it of until tomorrow, but tomorrow never comes…Good luck with your decluttering, and hope you reach your ideal home!;-)

  11. “no matter how far I have come there’s always space to go a little further” I love this statement Andreia, I will make it mine to think over it again and again. 🙂
    Thank you for sharing your experience with us and happy decluttering!

    • Hi Paola! Glad to have been helpful to you. I sent my story to Colleen to inspire as many people as I could because it’s worth it. Happy decluttering to you too!:-)

  12. Hi Andreia, It’s 11 April 2012 & I’m reading your story… thank you so much for sharing. YOU are inspirational and I am going to try to follow your example. My hubby is my total opposite; he does not hoard stuff, and is generally neat & tidy (I so hate that). I’ve been a hoarder all my life (am now 71.5) and must now declutter the past 32 years in the one house so we can move to a retirement village. I did once try a personal organizer (!!), but she was the worst $70 (for consultation only) I’d ever spent. Wanted me to write her a reference when she had not done anything (for a project for a small business course she was doing… I guess I was meant to tackle the job myself. Wish me luck… Kit

    • Hi Kit! Colleen called my attention to your comment! Thanks for your comment. As for inspitration I am glad my path to a decluttered home set a good example for you. If you truly think you are a hoarder, don’t try to declutter all on your own. Get someone to help you. But ask help from someone who respects your wishes, your likes and dislikes. I was very ruthless when I decluttered MY stuff, but I had doubts. I wanted to hang on to many things and had to give a lot of thought to what I wanted to do with the things I kept. What I have been doing (because I still deal with clutter) is looking for places for everything. Think about what space you will really have in your new home and what stuff you really want there. Good luck!