Mohamed Tohami over at Midway Simplicity has begun another interview project ~The Midway Decluttering Show. His most recent guess was a wonderful lady with a shining personality and very wise on the subject of decluttering. OK you caught me Â blowing my own trumpet again. 😉 Here is the link to the interview so you can judge for yourself.
Tohami has also recently released his new book Midway Simplicity ~ Easy solutions to simplify your time, health, things, finances and relationships. This book contains excerpts of all the interviews from the Midway Simplicity Show. Below is the excerpt of the interview he did with yours truly.
Simplify Your Time
â€œFill your time with something you enjoyâ€
I think with time, the key is it has to be filled with something, unlike closets that donâ€™t have to be full all the time. With time, youâ€™ve got to be doing something in that space. It might as well be something you enjoy and something you get satisfaction out of. My journey to de-clutter has freed up a lot of my time to do just that.
I had a dead-end, awful job when I first started de-cluttering. I feel I was able to really give that up because I wasnâ€™t wasting money on things I didnâ€™t need and didnâ€™t particularly want anymore. So I just gave that away and spend my time blogging and helping other people and thatâ€™s certainly very satisfying.
Simplify Your Health
â€œDecrease the things youâ€™re doing wrongâ€
I think when it comes to health, the easiest way to improve is to give up the things that are just not good for you â€“ smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, overeating and all those things. Theyâ€™re not hard to give up. Like my approach to de-cluttering, you donâ€™t have to go cold turkey. You can give them up slowly. Just decrease the things you are doing wrong a little at a time. That makes it a little more doable, I think. Giving up over several months has to be better than not giving up at all.
Simplify Your Things
â€œMake it easyâ€
I think the easiest thing, the thing that for some reason came to me out of the blue, is donâ€™t make it difficult on yourself. You donâ€™t have to do it in a month. You donâ€™t have to do it in a week. You donâ€™t have to do it in a year. Just do it as you feel comfortable. My plan to begin with was just to make it easy. It wasnâ€™t until I started moving further into reading about minimalism and that sort of thing that I realized I had moved into a whole new area of growth where I let go of more and more things.
I think if you use the slow, simple approach, youâ€™ll learn a lot more from it, and youâ€™ll get a lot more out of it. You wonâ€™t just find out youâ€™re back to square one in six monthâ€™s time.
There are always things in your house that stand out which you donâ€™t want anymore – things you just havenâ€™t got around to removing. Start on the easy things you can part with, not the sentimental things, not the tasks that do take more time. Start on the easy stuff. Then the further down the track you go, the more ruthless you get, and the more youâ€™re prepared to part with.
Simplify Your Finances
â€œOnly use credit cards in case of emergencyâ€
The simplest thing I think you can do when it comes to finances is not use credit. If you can avoid credit cards especially for things you donâ€™t need, donâ€™t use them. When we were first married, we didnâ€™t have a lot of money. We had a credit card, but we only ever used it in case of emergency â€“ if the car broke down or that sort of thing.
Donâ€™t buying things you donâ€™t need unless you can afford to pay cash for them. Like I said, just save credit cards for emergencies. If youâ€™re paying interest, then youâ€™re using it more than what you should. A credit card, to me, is something that I use so that I can pay bills online or use for emergencies, but not to be used willy-nilly buying a pretty dress and a pair of nice shoes. Thatâ€™s where the problem starts. Suddenly, you need some cash and you have maxed that credit card, and then youâ€™re paying big interests. The problem just snowballs.
Also, if you can fix things yourself, donâ€™t pay someone to do that for you. Take some classes, even in learning to sew or whatever, so that you can do stuff yourself. The less money youâ€™re throwing away, the more you have to spend on the things you enjoy in the long run.
Simplify Your Relationships
â€œAvoid people you donâ€™t likeâ€
I must admit I donâ€™t have a lot of problems with relationships. I seem to attract people to me who are good to be around, for some unknown reason. But maybe thatâ€™s because I unconsciously keep it simple. If I donâ€™t like people, I just avoid them.
Of course, you cannot avoid everyone in your life, but it doesnâ€™t mean youâ€™ve got to waste your time socializing with them. They are there for a reason; stick to that reason and donâ€™t let anything they say get you down.
The Weekend’s Mini Missions
SaturdayÂ â€“ Do a quick declutter of your childrenâ€™s toys. There are often broken ones, ones they no longer enjoy to play with or ones they have simply grown to old for.
SundayÂ -Â Sunday is reserved for contemplating one particular item, of your choice that is proving difficult for you to declutter. Whether that be for sentimental reasons, practical reasons, because the task is laborious or simply unpleasant, or because the items removal requires the cooperation of another person. That last category may mean that the item belongs to someone else who has to give their approval, it could also mean there is a joint decision to be made or it could mean that the task of removing it requires assistance from someone else. There is no need to act on this contemplation immediately, it is more about formulating a plan to act upon or simplyÂ making a decisionÂ one way or another.
“In daily life we must see that it is not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness that makes us happy.” Brother David Steindl-Rast